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trillaryclinton:

I introduced my coworker to knuck if you buck this past week

she was amazed

her words: “this is violent…but catchy”

im doing the lord’s work.

Perks of dating a black guy

quellingqualms:

So I’m talking to dude about how I wrap my hair at night/wear my scarf and how it made me feel odd at first to do that at night next to a guy because it wasn’t like “sexy” or whatever. We’ve been dating for like 4 years so it’s nothing now, but back then I felt weird. I didn’t remember how I eased…

"I’d cut my soul into a million different pieces just to form a constellation to light your way home. I’d write love poems to the parts of yourself you can’t stand. I’d stand in the shadows of your heart and tell you I’m not afraid of your dark."

- Andrea Gibson (via acidmindfuck)

(Source: midautumnrain)

jammerlammie:

male “intellectuals” in their early to mid 20s who feel strongly about absolutely nothing but will argue about serious issues like misogyny and racism just to add another “I Win” notch on their belt of arguments are the most pretentious,vapid,soulless pieces of shit i have ever seen.

(Source: fancynewbeesly)

kimberlaei asked: Okay so I have a quick question cause it's something I've been wondering about. One of my only white friends wants me to meet her boyfriend, who is also white, but wants me not to get offended because she says he's 'selectively racist'. Like what does that even mean? Racism is racism and she says that it's not really racist because 'it's only against certain people in an ethnic group' like????? So now I'm not really sure what to do when I meet him or what to say or if I even want to meet him

quellingqualms:

whitepeoplesaidwhat:

I personally don’t think you need either of them in your life if she’s cool with dating him and he doesn’t see anything wrong with how he is.

but if you still want her as a friend then be sure to call him out whenever he says some bullshit

See the thing is when someone tells you “Don’t get mad if ____ says something” then that means that they’re putting someone else’s choice to be ignorant over your feelings and ultimately your humanity. There’s no such thing as “Selective Racism” just because its only for specific people they’re the ones that’ll say “Oh not you, you’re one of the good ones” which is in no way a compliment nor constructive to the way that you see yourself or your people.

So I don’t think you need either of them but yo can do whatever you want really.

-Elijah

See the thing is when someone tells you “Don’t get mad if ____ says something” then that means that they’re putting someone else’s choice to be ignorant over your feelings and ultimately your humanity.”

Wow, I read that sentence like 5 times because it really spoke to me.

imp3rfectious:

distimiya:

don’t let tumblr make you believe that

-smoking is cool

-being a narcissistic bitch is acceptable

-trusting nobody is healthy

-starving yourself will make you beautiful

-hating everybody is okay

- that working hard for grades isn’t worth the time

- that having mental health condition is a perk

- that self harm should be romanticized

- that abusive and codependent relationships are cute

- that not being in a minority makes you any less of a person